He Smiles a Lot
So how to know when a guy likes you? These 15 signs are a surefire way. If he is doing this, he likes you! When you’re around him, he can’t help but smile. When we like someone, we are happy just to be around them, you feel the same way right? If a guy is really into you, he will smile a lot and it will be evident in his whole face up to the corner crinkles of his eyes. You can tell if he is forcing a smile because it does not light up his face. If he is grinning from ear to ear when he see’s you, you are on the right track.
He Touches You
Is he finding ways to touch you that you may not even notice? Perhaps a gentle caress on your back as you pass by or a linger of his fingers as he hands you a glass? His touch can also his way to see how you respond so he will know if you are interested as well.
If a guy likes you, you become like a magnetic attraction to him that he just can’t resist. He may not even be aware of it most of the time but he can’t help himself. If he is touching you, he likes you.
His Pupils Are Dilated
When we see something we like, our pupils will dilate, we all do that. So, it stands to reason that if he is into you, his pupils will dilate when he sees you. You can tell when someone is aroused by looking closely at their pupils in constant, standard-level light. This one can be hard to figure out because depending on the lighting, it can be hard to see for sure. Combine this tell tale sign with other ones for certainty.
He Makes Eye Contact with You
How to know when a guy likes you? A definite sign that he likes you is if he makes eye contact with you. This can be done even from across the room. For example, if you are out in public or at a party and you find he looking at you and then your eyes lock, he is into you. Especially if you look away, then re-establish eye contact. When you lock eyes, you are actually building a high level of intimate connection with someone. In fact, it’s one of the best ways you can build intimacy without touching.
He Checks You Out
A guy who is into you will check you out, big time. He might he might admire your face, your lips, your hair. Maybe you catch him checking out your legs if you are wearing a dress. Wait a minute, did he just check out your butt? You caught him doing that. If he is into you, he will definitely be admiring you physically so work it girl!
He Leans in Close to You
When you are interested in what someone is saying and you are comfortable, you lean in right? It’s something we all do naturally. But when a man is into you, he will close the gap and create some intimacy. It’s a non-threatening way for him to also read your reaction. If you pull away and or lean away from him, he will know that either you are not interested or you are not comfortable with him yet. A smart man will slow down if that happens.
He Grooms Himself
Has he put on a nice clean shirt and does he smell nice? This shows he cares what you think about him. He also may tidy himself while you’re around. He might fuss with his hair, straighten his shirt, or chew some gum or a mint. When he cares how he looks and smells when he is around you, he also cares about you.
His Puts His Hand on Yours
Wow, you’re holding hands! While this may seem like a giant step for you, it can also show just how much he is enticed by you. When he has his palm on yours, it’s a sign that he wants to get closer. You know when is driving or sitting across from your and he reaches out his hand and puts it on top of yours? Yup that’s a sign.
He Isn’t Distracted
When you’re with him, it’s like you and him are the only ones in the world. He doesn’t check his phone constantly or find reasons to do something else. He focuses his attention on you 100%. Wow he is a keeper at this point.
He is Comfortable When You Touch Him
So this one you can do on purpose to test out. Sit next to him and at some point, make sure your legs touch. If he does not pull his away and just sits there relaxed, that is a good sign. When you’re interested in someone, you are ok if they are in your personal space. In fact, you want them to be in your personal space.
How to know when a guy likes you? If he is fully at ease when you touch him, it’s because he’s interested in you and actually wants more of that from you. In some cases, he may not be a touchy feely guy, in this case it may be difficult to gauge his reaction. You will need to get to know him more to determine if its just his personality.
He Reflects You
This is also called mirroring. What happens is that when you cross your arms, he crosses his. You use the words “like” and “epic” a lot, he uses them too. This is known as mirroring. We mirror someone when we want to make them like us, and so we are more like them. The funny thing is, he may not even be aware that he is doing it. (Learn the science behind mirroring here.)
His Lips Part
When he sees you, he hopefully changes his whole expression to one of delight. However, to be sure he likes you, keep an eye on his lips. They will slightly part as he is looking at you, he might also lick or bite his lip. This is a definite body language cue that he likes you.
He Stands Tall and Proud
When you walk into the room, his posture will change, this is one way to know if a guy likes you. He stands up straight and he might even puff up his chest. He wants to look manly and attract your attention, think peacock – how they strut around to attract a mate. Males of species and very much the same. He could even “by accident” flex his muscles to show them off so be prepared for this classic male mating move.
He Walks Next to You
It doesn’t matter when you are or what you are doing, but if you are out and about and he glues himself by your side, he wants to be close and he likes you. It has been scientifically proven that when a guy likes you, he’ll equal your pace, whether its fast or slow. Go jogging or walking together and see what happens.
He Laughs at Your Jokes
It doesn’t matter what you say; he laughs at even your lamest jokes. He laughs when you do, even if what you find funny isn’t so funny. This is similar to mirroring, he wants to make you like him. If you can make him laugh easily, it’s a sign that he likes you. In addition, laughing is an important part of any relationship so it’s a good sign for longevity as well.
What You Must Know About Reading the Signs…
I know you want to know how to know when a guy likes you or no but shouldn’t expend ALL your energy on reading the signs.
If you’re too busy looking for signs he likes you and reacting to his reaction, you won’t natural. You may come across as being phoney or he may start misreading what you are doing. So take it easy, notice the signs when it is natural but don’t dwell on them. Be yourself, and focus on him and his energy.
I hope this post informed you of the important body language signals that mean he absolutely likes you. If he does like you, cheers! But before you decide on your next move, you need to know that there is one important moment in every relationship that defines if it will last, or if you will be left heartbroken. Discover What Men Secretly Want, But They Could Never Tell You.
At some point, he will ask himself: Is this the woman I want to commit myself to? The answer will determine whether the relationship deepens, or ends. Do you know how a man decides a woman is “girlfriend material”? Do you know what inspires a man to want to commit? If not, you need to read this next: The #1 Things Men Desire in a Woman
The other problem that can end your relationship is when he starts to pull away and lose interest. Do you know what to do when this happens? If not, you run the risk of making the most common relationship-ruining mistakes. Read this now and learn how to fix it: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…