To love and be loved is a universal desire so why do so many of us suck at it? Well maybe we are going about it all wrong and we don’t know the right ways to find your soulmate. Sometimes  we just get lucky and find the perfect romantic partner just like that – in the movies maybe.

In real life your chances to find your soulmate are a lot higher if you have a good attitude towards dating, love and relationships. It also helps if you love yourself before you look to love someone else.

The most important thing however is to improve yourself and your dating skills in order to increase the likelihood of finding one and only. Try something new, the results may just surprise you!

1.Use the Law of Attraction to Find Your Soulmate

The law of attraction is the belief that “like attracts like,” and that by focusing on positive thoughts we can bring about positive results. By understanding and following this simple rule, you will be empowered to attract a lifelong partner.

2. How to Identify Potential Soulmates

Thanks to Disney movies and classic Hollywood romances, most people grew up thinking they’d find their soulmate and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, it’s common to go for decades without finding “the one”, and the concept of a soulmate can start to feel like a foolish fantasy.

However, if you look around, you’ll see there are couples who prove that soulmates are real. This mean it’s possible for you to find and nurture that dream relationship too – if you look out for the relevant clues! So how do you know when you meet your soulmate? Keep these eight soulmate signs in mind, and you’ll know when you’ve found the one.

3. Use Your Heart to Find Your Soulmate

What you need to remember about how to find your soulmate is that you do not actively choose your soulmate. Your soulmate is chosen by your heart. The person who becomes your soulmate is not a choice that you can make. However, you do have the choice to follow this path or to resist the love it offers.

The problem many people have is: They do fight against the soulmate their heart chooses. Why? Mainly because people are afraid of love as it can be a very powerful emotion that puts you at the mercy of someone else. Everyone who finds a soulmate should be embracing this, despite people saying that they should not fall head over heels in love with someone, which is one of the biggest problems with society today as most people are under the idea that to love someone this much means being weak and ending up hurt.

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.”

4. Go to the Best Places to Meet Your Soulmate

Three years ago, I darted to the back of a plane and hid behind a tray table in the upright position. Seconds later, I got a text message: “Laura? Was that you on my returning flight.?” I sunk into the seat closest to me, hoping the guy who’d texted would use the bathroom at the front of the aircraft and avoid me at all costs during the long journey to Washington.

This wasn’t a high school classmate run-in or sworn enemy of mine. He was a perfect stranger, actually. We’d met three days earlier on a 5-hour flight from Dulles to Denver, and though I’d been charmed enough by this fellow to give him my number after we landed, I reevaluated the situation at lunch with friends the following day.

“Someone asked you out on a plane?” my buddy Adam said. “That’s weird. Desperate, too.”It wasn’t too odd, but I couldn’t wrap my head around the fact that he made the trip from D.C. to Utah every weekend so his mom, who lived in Salt Lake City, could do his laundry. I decided not to go on a date with the guy, but being on the same returning flight made that internal choice especially awkward in that moment.

If I could go back, I’d tell my 22-year-old self not to be such a closed-minded brat and think for herself. Meeting someone up in the air actually sounds pretty romantic in retrospect! There are lots of great, unexpected ways to stumble upon your soul mate, so be sure not to rule these ones out.

5. How to Find Your One True Love Without Fail

In reality, a “soulmate” is a person (any person) which your subconscious mind has determined satisfies a good portion of unmet needs in your life and matches your belief system and so would be a good person to have in your life. The way your subconscious mind tries to draw this person into your life …is to make you fall in love with them. This way you will do anything to keep them in your life. And so the person becomes to you your “soulmate”.

Once you find your soulmate, do you know how to keep that fire going? Did you know that there’s a relationship secret ingredient that a man craves in order to feel intense, committed love. Without it, he will always keep one foot out the door…..

5 Ways to Find Your Soul Mate